Thursday, October 10, 2013

I have no words...

The vicious cycle we all experience is that dreadful roller coaster ride... You're happy one minute and the next everything is shattered in an instant.
We wish health and happiness and count our blessings for these every day then you find pieces of a puzzle you've been putting off finally come together to only discover you were lied to...again!
"I didn't think it was a big deal...I'm sorry I've upset you... We've been so happy lately" true. But at the expense of your lies and  secrets.
A truly happy person is fulfilled with all around them. Their wife, kids, their job... When you extend the invitation and open doors to unnecessary welcomings,  you are not only unhappy with your life, you're unhappy with yourself!
I believe in marriage. I believe that BOTH spouses work hard in making a house a home at different levels. Their will be the home maker who will run the house and hold the fort and the other who will provide financial success to have clothes on their back and food on the table. They are equal. And both deserve the praise. Secrets are kept when  maybe the wife has overspent the monthly income budget but when a man lies about a business trip that turned out to be a party fiesta is just dirty.
We don't expect praise for a free pass to be unlocked from these cages! This house is a HOME and behind these "cages" lives a family who will be your biggest fans no matter the falls and triumphs you may encounter. That is FAMILY. It's sad that in some peoples upbringing they were never taught that.
I need to tell my son over and over again when it's time to pick up his toys and make sure he follows through with it, when you do this with a grown-ass man...this just leaves me... Without words.